STEREOTYPES!!

Women are not supposed to hang out with friends.

Men don't cry.

Women are inferior to men.

Men have no emotions.

Women are weaker than men physically.

Men don't hide their feelings.

Women are gossipers and they can hide nothing.

Fat people don't look beautiful.

Pink is for girls.

Thin people are weak.

Length of her dress defines her.

Number of friends in opposite gender tells about your character.

Hair on his head is important for marriage.

Her size and weight stops her from marriage.

Students have no other stress except studying.

This is how we live. There are many more I guess. We had built bridges between us. We don't walk on them neither we destroy. Bridges actually help in connecting but these social barriers which I call them as bridges distance one from oneself. 

Every person is left with a deep scar because of the prejudice we made. And those scars, sometimes cannot be erased. Just think, that means you've made a big impact on someone else's life. First, try to heal your own scars.

Every person has an invincible scar and it has it's own story. Never be that story for someone else.

If your pride stops you from breaking these stereotypes, then break your pride!

If not us, then who can.

Let's break these dumb barriers, before it's too late!!!

INSECURITIES!

 Insecurities!

Insecure life, scary thoughts and hidden fear. This is how we are living. We are lost in the thoughts about life, career, rejections, fame, responsibilities etc. Worrying about the next step, we are forgetting to watch the present step. Yes! you are supposed to think about the future and act according to it, but that doesn't mean to forget the present. You really don't know what happens the next minute. You are now sleeping happily and suddenly what if it's your last sleep? Did yo ever give a thought about it?

According to me, we are never capable of judging our life whether its short or long. We are only capable of enjoying it every minute. Every minute of your time should be so tough to remember it as a good memory. 

It's not wrong if you are scared because of your insecurities. That's actually a good thing because you will get the answers of all the chaos. But if you become a puppet under the insecurities, you will be your own saitan. No one can help you. You feel death is the only thig which helps you and I feel that, this "Insecurities" is the reason for many people's choose of suicide. 

We all know that, we can reach a destination through many ways. There's a less probability of a destination having only single way. Similarly, there are many ways to overcome your insecurities, fears or whatever. Sun never forgets to rise, even if it is not in vicinity it gives light to us. When you feel low, then it's not necessary to die, just choose to stay calm. Silence is never silent when you are in need of it, you can listen it speaking. You have survived in the dark for nine months, then why can't you accept a small period of gloom in your life.

Be the ruler of insecurities, be the answer of chaos, be the warrior of fear!!

        after all, life should go on...

The Lockdown-ed LIFE!

 The lockdown-ed LIFE!

Life is inevitable, we heard it some million times. But sometimes, I guess we can pause our life. We all seriously were in need of break from this mechanical life. We wanted to enjoy the life like never before. Do you think we really enjoyed it?

I guess so. I mean like yes obviously. But it was not through travelling or exploring or anything external. We enjoyed internally, i.e., through the mind and heart. May be not all, but I am sure that we all have undergone through such a phase of life that we can never experience it again. It is something deep. We were part of a war by staying indoors, with the virus and with the soul. Change embraced us. Thoughts have been upgraded. Silence sounded so beautiful. Oh my God! every inch of my soul started being different. Just like the waterfalls smoothen the rocks and pave a beautiful way to the people, this lockdown helped us to carve our thoughts. New hobbies, new interests, new aspect of life and new attitudes of us have been awaken. The sky seemed do perfect and we could literally see the clouds. All the birds sounded so beautiful that my heart always wanted them to sing. Time flew away by watching dramas, web series and movies. 

Too much of time was found just to stay at home. In India, the lockdown started in the month of march. Everyone were at their hometowns, indulged their time with family. That's really great break we needed because in this timeless world we all forgot the moments to be spend with family. Though in particular people's life domestic violence was held, most of the people lived and spent their time with family. 

This lockdown is something which is not less than a war. We all know the world before World War-II and after it. Similarly, in the future we will definitely call this phase of our life as before Covid and after it.  There have been a change not only in us but also in the nature-the reason of our existence. Nature's healing has healed us all too. 

People got enough time to know about oneself. We now are capable of answering who we truly are. 

The enjoyment was not more than three months I guess. It was tough to stay in the same place for more than three months. It's a nice thing to spend time with our family but to stay in a choked and closed place for much time is not my thing specially. Travelling is a major part of our lives, it doesn't necessary mean to other states or countries. To sit in the lawns with no masks, to breath air with no fear, to eat the street food with no second thoughts and so to live the life in serene. This is how we are all habituated to. And now to change our lifestyle all of a sudden, it's not easy to do. Hope is the only thing we are left with.

 Like the warm of the winter and rain in the summer.

Like the fall in the autumn and celebration in monsoon.

So, the spring will be back. 

This break helped us to turn into a butterfly from the caterpillars, don't leave the hope because flowers are waiting for you to fall on!