Scars on our body with stories that are never spoken out.
stout body it is, can we call it home?
Abandonment by the society
abusing for bearing your body.
Family threatening instead of lending support
mental disturbance caused that is never expressed.
Yes, we do live in the 21st century, yet we stopped our growth to the olden days. Campaigns, rallies, protests etc regarding body shaming, home body, plus size people, and all are just dilly dally.
Your body is what you are. Be it obese or lean. People will never understand what you are going through and what you are fighting with to lose weight or to gain some. They would never want to care either. All they think is, if they pass out comments on our body may be we would lose or gain weight taking their comments as slogans for our inspiration. Little did they knew about mental health that would be disrupted because of their so-called comment slogans.
Obese people might have stopped eating chocolates, ice creams, cheese stuff, high carbs and BIRYANI!!!just to lose weight because of pressure and lean people might have started eating all types of carbs, non veg, food etc to gain weight, OH Darlings, things don't work when you do it under pressure be it regarding weight or anything other. There are subtle and composed ways to achieve things and to slam the society.
People cannot be stopped from judging us, but you can be stopped for losing yourself from their judgments. May be, you start losing confidence on you or worse, you might start hating yourself or might feel insecure about yourself. But, what do you gain from all these things except depression!
You are in need of yourself. When you gather yourself in strength, you can prove people how correct you are. It's hard to muster your thoughts in hard times but it is not impossible. Find ways in any forms and never lose yourself!
Wait! I really mentioned obese people and fat people?!
Oh, man! I really am writing this to give strength and yet here I am calling out names!!! ( I blame society for this influence, sorry not sorry)