Thursday, 28 April 2022

Middle Class dreamers..!

To be a dreamer it just takes a minute,
But to be an achiever it takes you some pennies.
How does it feel when the oppurtunities knock your door?
How beautiful do you feel when they come inside too?
It feels amazing right! Much beyond that too! But what if you are in such a position that you will have to send them back? Doesn't it kill you? Doesn't it give you a scar of being not rich? Doesn't it make you weak that, you just lose interest in dreaming because of your financial status?
It happens. It happens with every person who comes from a middle class background. You will be given the freedom to dream, but to live them and to achieve them, you will not always be provided with the support. Be it financial or mental. May be that makes a person to stop dreaming. May be it will hurt you so bad that you cannot even scream in silence. 
It is not okay. But that doesn't mean you should be stubborn about spending every single penny to make use of your oppurtunity, because that penny is not yours solely,  but your family's sweat. And may be at times though you don't want to give up on your dreams, situations around you will make you give up on them. I know its rare where opportunities itself knock the door, but when you cannot just make use of it because of the unconventional events happening in your life, stand strong and do not feel guilty.
Remember just one thing, you couldn't take that opportunity but you can create one!
Stand for yourself, stand for your dreams, create your own path, and importantly do not lose hope!!!

Tuesday, 26 April 2022

Guilts and Regrets

 What will be the beauty of rose,

if the pathway to its petals are not of thorns.

What will be the beauty of rose,

if we do not tear its petals.

What will be the beauty of rose,

if we do not regret for plucking it up...

Living a life that you alone dream is much easier than living a life that is built on the paths of the society's will. When you try to be a person who would satisfy everyone's wills and wishes, do you even realise you are losing your inner self.  In the whole process of satisfying everyone, a pounce of who you really is being lost and that one day would give you an ocean of regrets which you would surely fail to swim. 

The process of life is so skeptical, that one would forget their own identity in the process of lending light to others. Though they know that the other person is hurting them, manipulating them, and killing the hope that had been very strong till that minute, they still choose to lend the light even after the drought that happened in the land of friendship or love. May be in the whole process of making that person better, you might have taken some hard steps that would have had made some hard decisions, yet you choose to not give up though you know that you will have to be a bearer of the guilt that keeps crushing you.

What will these regrets and guilts give you in the end?

They give you the pain to survive, lessons to be learnt, hope to be forsaken and a life yet to live. 

This would now tell who you really are!

After realising your guilt, when you choose to withstand it with inner hope, with the little courage there wakes up an army of strength to lead you forward. Yes, you are not supposed to have those regrets and guilts, but when you know you cannot avoid them you are only supposed to suppress them and live the lessons you have learnt.

After all, you are the human being. And after all, you are who you should be.

 What else do you require for it to terrify you...?

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