No don't do that.
Give things a second chance. When life is giving you second chances why can't you make an opportunity out of it. I don't mean you should be in a relationship immediately but after giving yourself enough time to accept things, when you get a person who loves you do not let the past stop you.
Ofcourse it might not work out the second time either, but we all live a life that have to keep going right .. What would you get if you just shut the doors and sit only inside?
The second time if it doesn't work out, you would not be in that pain but u would be in a position to understand and let go of things with smile a little stronger this time.
Letting go of things and accepting the things and people is a blessing. Find your own ways to reach that out.
Come out of your pain in an unexpected way, because this is the only life you would remember living.
Letting go does not mean giving up rather it means choosing peace.
Moving on is a little complicated stage, isn't it?
We question ourselves for the next choice, we belittle ourselves for the choices we made, we just lose the trust in ourselves and mainly we fear about the questions that people tend to ask! To many thoughts that make our simple life complicated.
Is it really that deep thing ? Do you really think you need that thinking to move on from someone or something ?
What's wrong if you find out the right space in someone new after the person who hurt you left..?
Well, it might be quick or a little late but its life some or the other it is meant to happen, isn't it?
Are we not supposed to forgive the past that ruled us and come out of fear of things repeating?
I have always believed and I still believe that, when you love someone, love to marry them, love to see the little things of life with them and love to make life beautiful.
Break ups and moving on does happen, but its a fact that the remains of the past love lives on in us. We built a life with those foundations, so its pretty hard to completely demolish it. However we do can remodel it by building much more strong pillars.
Nothing is really hard, if we try our best. It simply means giving chance to chances.
Don't worry about others opinion in your life decisions, they do matter if its from someone like a family but never let their questions bring insecurities about yourself. It is your life and your life deserves second chance, may be even a third and so on!
Living everyday is something that we have to learn.
A CHANCE IS A CHANGE TO WHAT YOU WERE AND WHAT YOU CAN BE !