Life is a journey which is more like an ocean. The blues are to be felt beautiful and the shores are to be reached some or the other day. There would be a number of fishes, with different species and types.
I remember an incident from my childhood. I was friends with one of the craziest girls in my 5th standard. Somehow we fought and I blamed it all on her, not just for that one year but I carried that grudge for 2 years ( as for I rememeber). Then somehow, I realized what all I did the previous years. I couldn't carry that guilt. I couldn't apologize. We were speaking by then on normal terms and just like that, out of the blue we became good friends, best friends. And now, 7 years later we are still friends. We are actually best friends. I don't know what would I had done in my life without her all these years .HELL MAN ! (I apologized later ;P). Why am I telling this now? You might wonder that. But seriously, just look at me and my best friend, how we grew up with the time and how we accepted the situations.
Ofcourse, it can't be the case with everyone but think about how we get stuck to one person and carry that pain instead just accepting the things and the timings that have the magic to heal us.
Life is more like accepting, forgiving but not forgetting and being careful. Sometimes we meet the right people in the wrong times and wrong people at the right times. Irrespective of the times, the right people always stay. Then what about the wrong people?
They teach you a lesson. They are not exactly the wrong people but they are someone who is not to our frequencies. We might think they also belong to the right people category. We admire their friendship, we without our own knowledge become dependent on their friendship and emotionally we become so parasitical. And then boom, the destiny cuts our friendship with them.It becomes so hard to accept it. To live without their friendship, it becomes so hard. We want to forgive them and we definitely do that but somehow, the emltions, the pain and the situations you went through after what all had happened keeps on replaying in your brain. And may that is when you understand, letting go is an art and learning the letting go process is the job of an artist, that is you.!
May be we can never kill the emotions we have had on certain people. Though we have been hurt, we forgive them with a smile. Thats not our greatness exactly, its just the emotion that makes you feel that way. We just forbid the emotion and bury it deep inside. We act out as if that emotion never existed but thr truth is known only to you. We were hurt but you forgive, we speak no more but you speak with that graveyard of emotions.
This is the way it happens and when you understand this fact, you need carry any guilt because there is a conclusion that " Time heals and you can deal then"
The forbidden may wakeup, the graveyard may be faded, things might be back to normal but the scar remains... That's all !
Life is a journey,
we meet people,
we greet people.
Some become friends,
Some just stay as people.
The doors of your life are opened by some to come in,
they are again opened by some to exit.
Because it is life,
Smile and accept.
The joy stays in accepting !