The Life

As a kid I always wanted to grow up as an adult and chase my freedom. I expected to be happier as an adult. To find a home and build fantasies as a true thing. 

Today, after 19 years almost the end of the teenage I realize how adulthood is going to sound. It is a little scary and little excited. 

We friends who have been together for almost 8 to 10 years find out how we are growing up so fast. We are growing up faster than yesterday. 

I still remember how in school we fought over small things and didn't speak for some days. We used to think the exams as the ultimate and the huge problem. We used to cheat in exams, gossip about our crushes, fear for results, see the school romance, listen the gossips of our teachers, the lunch and P.T sessions !!!

When did these all happen ? When did these all became a part of photographs and memories? When did we friends started making and taking decisions about our life. 

When I sat with my friends and asked about their life and the next steps, they tell me that they have plans of settling in the abroad and that minute I was taken back to 5 years where we were still having plans about how to cheat in exams....

It is all about how our lives are evolving and how we all are changing ourselves in to a person whose childhood has been and will be abandoned. It is scary, isn't it? 

Life is the most happening thing right now. We are about finish off with our degrees too. An year or 2 from now is going to be different, busy, pretending to be okay and chasing for something that we might not know. 

Today we still say each other that we will always have each others back. Well, will we really?

It is not always possible to help each other. Sometimes it is still night for me and may be it is the day for you. We can be there for each other but we might be in a situation where we cannot help each other.

The reality is bit too harsh to us, sometimes it teaches us lessons and some other times its only the sufferings and pain. Just because we cannot help each other, that doesn't mean we don't love each other. 

This is life, isn't it? Sometimes we hurt each other, sometimes we comfort each other. We love each other. We forgive each other. We stop talking. We start building new relations. New friends, The tensions, The life, The work, The love life, The fraternity, The selfish side, The humane side and many more. 

It might be dark today, but tomorrow the sun is going to rise back. It will be okay for sure. The oceans are still adored even when there are dead bodies in it. There are more stories speaking about the treasure in them than the dead bodies. That is the beauty of the hope and positivity. Situations will be back to normal and they will be okay with such positivity.

Okay doesn't just means things in alright situation but more like a solution, the harsh decisions for the good, or it might also mean the pain that does definitely have an end.

 

P.S,

Friendships once built are never gone. They are just abandoned at times. Just because they are abandoned it doesn't mean the friendships gone.

For the future,

the fear, 

the life,

the friendships, 

and the some tough decisions

have hope, be the hope and give hope!!

THE MOMENTS

The tomorrow we are waiting for and dreaming about

may not be tomorrow actually...

tomorrow the treasure that we think that belongs to us 

may be lost before we have found it

I never knew the importance of living "moments" until I found out the pain that one experiences when he/she has not been given the freedom of living them. The freedom? you may wonder how is the freedom related to one living the moment. It is definite that sometimes the freedom that you are given in your home stops you from enjoying your moments. Well, it is not your family's mistake to not give you enough freedom, lets just not blame on them because that is pointless and also that they might be over protective or they might be afraid of the ruthless monsters living in the human form out in the society.
 Fight for those moments, let them know that you will not cross your limits, make them believe that you deserve a life that is ruled by you cause those moments are worth living! 
Of course it is a complicated one. One shall not exceed their limits to have those moments. Also the limits are defined accordingly. However, those limits shall be the ones they are right. Do not define rights, rights and wrongs are the predetermined facts that can never change just because you hate it.  
 
It is not always possible for one to live those moments. A friend of mine, she desperately wanted to spend time with her friends. Be it one friend or many, guy or a girl. She tried asking her family if she could go out for few hours. They did not like it and questioned her what if someone they know sees her with friends of guys and girls. When she shared this situation with me, she was broken a little from inside though she carried those emotions with a smile. I asked her what did she reply to that. She smiled and replied me with what she told her parents, "nobody outside thinks bad because every house have kids who go out with friends of guys and girls, they do not mind sending their kids out because they never seen the friendship in a wrong way". She did tell out her view, though it somehow did hurt their parents. Here, I felt its neither's mistake... She wanted the freedom. Her parents intentions were not wrong because the society we are living is that worse actually. We live in an era where we cannot believe someone completely. It is natural for her parents to think in a bad way because we surely don't know what they have got to listen form somebody else. But, the whole point here is why are these kind off situations stopping one from living moments ?
There might be people who misuse the freedom to live their moments but when you know about the person who is seeking your permission, do they not deserve a chance to live ?
Things change with time, with the time thoughts evolve, with the evolvement, one should make his/her life as a good life with full of memories made up of moments! 

We do not know when death takes us away, we do not know when people leave our life, we do not know what happens the next minute, we do not know the future! Then why are we worrying a lot about the ''we do not know" when we can live this minute ?! Having future plans, fearing of what might happen next is okay to a certain point, but they should not be the fetters stopping you to live today!

Go, fight, ask, tell everyone ! Do everything you can! YOU WILL NOT GET TO LIVE THIS MINUTE TWICE! 

It is a life lesson.
To invite tomorrow, you will have to live today.
To give chance tomorrow, you will have to try today.
What is tomorrow like,
No can predict today!
Time hurts you may be, but it also heals you.
Having hope is no wrong.
Having patience is no ill.
Let it be. Let it go. Let it grow. And let it win !