Mid 20's

 This blog is dedicated to all the people entering into 20's or may be who are about to cross their 20's.

I always thought adulthood begins from 18, ofcourse we remain teens yet somehow the age 18 feels like an entrance level to adulthood and when you are about to enter into your 20's, then life actually seems to be really different. You will understand things in a very different way, a little deep and sometimes complicated. Simple things makes you worry, complicated things begin to become a little easier. Everything seems to be okay and also not okay. Everything, though its a mess, you will have a clarity about it. 

See, the above para itself is a little complicated. That is how life seems to be like from 20's . ( My personal opinion though, you may not feel the same). The most beautiful thing is, whatever emotion you might be carrying or whatever task you might be doing, you will surely do or feel it with lucidity. 

There will be certain things that you know are right, but you still choose to not do or follow those, there would be certain things that you know are wrong, yet you choose to do that wrong. That's how 20's begin,wouldn't they ? May be, at some point of time when you think of all the happening moments of you life from a few months, you would think of yourself as the confused person. But, in reality you aren't that confused. Its just the "20's" pressure. Yes, The REAL PRESSURE AND STRESS STARTS FROM HERE !    

You would be always worried about how you would make it in the futre, you willl lose confidence on your choices, you will not understand what you are actually doing, you will start comparing yourself with someone who is completely indifferent from you,you will start blaming things on yourself though you are not the reason for the fault, you would feel guilty, happy, sad, angry and a lot at once, a lot more things, a lot more stress, a lot more anxiety will be added to your life. The only thing you are supposed to understand is that those are just another chapters which would surely end to give new chapters a chance. Things will surely make sense, and though you might not feel the same way you will sure create the audacity to create steps and chances for yourself.

My Prinicpal's daughter was actually complaining me about her life at school. She was telling me how sad she feels for not getting a chance to dress herself with different types of clothes and matching jewellery, hairstyles and a lot because she's still in her school. She really wants herself to start working. Oh God, I didn't know whether I am supposed to feel bad for her or laugh. I could see myself in her. As a kid I always wanted to grow up so badly. Ofcourse, almost every one of us had same thoughts. We always dreamt to grow up as a kid, and once we realise how things become while growing up, we wish to be kids. Bizzare, yet reality. I too, miss my school life but seriously, I am in love with growing up. Though I miss my school days and that life, I never had a thought neither did I wish to go back to as a kid. I did have so many beautiful memories as a kid, but somehow my dreams as a kid rule my memories of being a kid. 

No matter how worse things get while you are growing, just realise things and life also get beautiful ! Just like how you feel so happy and at peace after trecking for some kms of distance to watch a sunset, things get better and alluring after a while. 

Importantly, NO MATTER HOW WORSE SITUATION YOU ARE IN, NEVER EVER FORGET TO SMILE ! Smile before you lose all your teeth!

"With the roads you've choosen,

the path might get frozen,

Take a look for a while,

of all the dreams you dreamt off behind

For the castles of hope you built ahead,

try and try and try again.

Failure is a worry ofcourse,

Giving up is not a mercy!

Miracles and surpises,

come for and with everyone, 

as the sun shines after feiry night,

because the world cannot hide in the dark outright..."

P.S : Ofcourse, people are different. People's methodology of dealing their problems is different, People's opinion and suggestions on mid 20's are  different. Similarly, these are my opinions. I hope this hurt no one :)