I am no one to define those both because, in reality they have no definitions, but sensibility.
Do you really think its fine to give up love for friendship and vice versa?
A broken heart would be struck between the walls built of confusion. And the result of the chaos is much worse than one can ever imagine. It not only does build walls but also deep phrases of depression and much worse anxiety.
Its just the affirmations we have made with our self regarding love and friendship.
Compromises, sacrifices and adjustments would definitely play a huge role in any kind of relation, but that doesn't mean relations would stand only on those components. This generation, that is us are trying to make complications that are actually nothing. I am actually not supposed to generalize, but that is what most of us are doing, so I am not sorry.
Friendships are something that gives renaissance to the inner peace . You need not talk to your friend everyday to prove your relation as the best friendship. Yeah, may be new people, new changes around you, new environment would bring something like a clash or a distance between you guys, but once you know how thick friends you have been, everything will just be a piece of cake. Break-ups happen not only in love but also friendship. And that would also have a very adverse affect on one's mental health.
When two people were in love and after they find their own ways out of their relationship, everything in the world does remind them of those beautiful but now shattered moments. The air, the sunsets, the people you spoke about them and your own self. Everybody tries to remind you of them. And then there would be minutes where you feel like losing the connection with this world which is trying to remind you of her/him and feel like normal.
But, do you realize that you are making it worse by taking that decision?
This world didn't hurt you and so you are not supposed to hurt the world. Yes, things might remind of the person you still love and that is a boon...! Don't you think so?
Where everything is faded away these days, the world keeps on reminding you of how beautiful human you are by being in love. It reminds you of what you are capable of by loving someone. It turns you to better person.
Friendships and love are something that are meant to help you in finding out the colors that are meant for you, be it black or vibgyor. It is all within us and should be from us regarding the acceptance of people's exit and entry. If people leave you for you being yourself, remember that your life is supposed to be lived by you and for you. People's affirmations, of course would affect you but they shouldn't rule you.
Be the true you, the true people will stay with you.
Be the conqueror of peace,.
Be the ruler of your life.
Be the strength you need.
"LOVE SHOULD MAKE YOU RAISE AS A MAN. FRIENDSHIP SHOULD CHANGE YOU TO A BETTER MAN."
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